21 REASONS WHY YOUTHS SHOULD SAY NO TO PRE-MARITAL SEX.

Pre-marital sex offends God and also destroys human relationship. When the unmarried ones have sexual relationship before marriage, it is called pre-marital sex. Most youths are victims of this problem.

 

 

Hebrews 13:4 says “marriage is honourable in all and bed undefiled but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge”.

 

Ephesians 5:3 says “but fornication and uncleanness or covetousness,let is not be once named among you as become saints.”

 

God wants you to flee from it because marriage is a gift from God to be treated with respect and it is also meant to fulfil the needs or desires of married couple.

 

 

 

If you are ready,lets begin...

1.Pre-marital sex can destroy your virginity

2.      Rejection: It can lead to rejection;no man would desire to marry a second hand lady. For example,there was a particular girl who sold her body to one young man. The young man rejected her, went to the village and married a virgin.

3.      Respect: Sex before marriage makes you to loose your respect. Young men discuss about girls who flirt and it will make them to know that you are cheap. Also, if the man succeeds in painting you as cheap to other men and right from that day they will no longer respect you.

4.      Pre-marital sex can make you loose your blessing.There was a particular sister who was about to write her Senior Secondary School Examination (SSCE). She had no money to enrol, but a male teacher in her school, promised to give her the money, but with a condition. The condition was that she should come and sleep with him and the girl agreed so she sold her virginity. Just for a token and lost what is more precious and valuable that was God's gift to her.

5.      Most girls who indulge in pre-marital sex and get pregnant would like to abort the child and by doing so, you become murderer and no murderer will go to heaven.

6.      It leads to unwanted baby: Most girls reject their babies immediately after babies immediately after birth. There was a particular lady who after giving birth to a child threw it inside the pit toilet and ran away. But neighbours saved the life of that child.

7.      Pre-marital sex can make you not to further your education. It can destroy your future career, most parents out of annoyance withdraw their finance when they discovered it.

8.      God hates pre-marital sex: anybody that does it sinned against God.

9.      Pre-marital sex defiles your matrimonial bed.

10.  Pre-marital sex can also lead to hatred; there was one particular young boy who was lusting after a girl, immediately he slept with the girl, both of them hated themselves.

11.  Sex before marriage will make you to suspect each other; your partner will no longer trust you.

12.  Pre-marital sex can lead you to contact Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS) which has no cure but death. Young boys and girls, do not rely on condom, it will disappoint you. There is also danger in using condoms. It cannot help you. What do you do when the condom bursts during the act? You can easily contact Acquired Immune Defiency Syndrome (AIDS) so avoid it.

13.  Pre-marital sex can also lead to unhappiness. If you had known yourselves before the wedding day; the joy and excitement that goes with honeymoon will not be there.

14.  Sex before marriage leads to death or hell. You will be seperated from God's presence. There was a sister who fell into fornication during her youth service, she was paralysed and died because of the forbidden fruit she ate.

15.  Pre-marital sex will make you to loose favour with God, your parents, pastor, future partner and in-laws. As girl who kept her virginity to the day of marriage is like a God to her parents, pastor and her husband.

16.  Pre-marital sex brings shame to you, your family, church and place of work.

17.  Pre-marital sex can also recognise his/her real father. The child can also make the child not to recognise his/her real father. The child can also be fustrated.

18.  Pre-marital sex can lead to polygamy, that is, it will make your partner to marry a second wife.

19.  Pre-marital sex can also lead to the establishment of orphanage homes. Because most girls dump their unwanted babies in the street, bush, etc

20.  Pre-marital sex leads to indebtedness. Most girls are made to be responsible for the financial burden without the help of the young man. There was a particular girl who delivered a baby in a hospital, she did not have enough money to pay her hospital bills and subsequently was detained by the doctor for some months.

21.  It can also lead to barrenness: During the process of aborting the child, the lady's womb may be damaged.